Some situations in life have no easy answer! it might be that the problems have existed for a long, long time? It might be that there are multiple people involved with multiple issues? It might be that there is no simple solutions available to what appears to be some very twisted challenges?
Or it might be that the circumstances you are in are simply beyond your control? What do we do then?
#1 - Realize that God is not asking you to fix the situation,He simply wants you to do the NEXT RIGHT THING!
What is the next right thing to do? Forgive? Establish a boundary? Have a necessary but difficult conversation? Obey God. Please God. Do the NEXT RIGHT THING and let him work on your behalf.
#2 - Re-discover Joy!
Don't put of joy until the situation changes or the problem is solved. Find joy today. Joy is the choice to step into the flow of the Holy Spirit and to allow Him to re-shape the atmosphere within your heart. Joy is a fruit of the Spirit.
God will enable you to enjoy the moment you are in and the little things for which we can always be thankful.
#3 - Aggressively Declare God's Promise!
If you don't live in faith you will give into fear and dispair. We don't drive out fear incrementally. Fear must be overcome with boldness. Bold faith grows because it connects to GOD'S PROMISE. You can't grow faith in a vaccuum. You can't wish it into existence.
Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the WORD OF GOD. Romans 10:17
It might be complicated right now. And you might not be able to see how it will all work out. But you can take steps to actively trust God and work with Him to bring about a seeminly impossible solution. The only other alternative is to sink down in despair.
So rise up. Take these steps. God will meet you as you trust in Him.